Unleash the power in you
When I was younger, I didn’t truly understand the awesome power of manifesting. The practice of consciously focusing my energy and actions on what I want to achieve…and then working towards it with pure, unfettered determination.
Once I discovered what it was, I realized that I’d been doing that unconsciously all along, throughout my successful career. And when I started gaining an even deeper understanding, I was almost afraid of just how powerful it was – and of who I could really be.
I had to learn how to channel my ability to be a co-creator of my own life with the universe. Being empowered like this was magical, exhilarating, and mind-blowing. Then I just needed to find a way to reframe it for my romantic aspirations.
And that’s exactly what I did. Today I have the career I love, the man I love, and life is GREAT! But it hasn’t always been that way. My journey to get here was full of difficulty, hurt, revelations and turning points. All of which I’ve learned from and used to create my potent breakthrough program, “Become a Soulmate Magnet in 90 Days”.
I was looking for love, at any cost
Growing up, I didn’t feel the world was a safe place. As an immigrant child in New Jersey I experienced bullying and turmoil, and yearned for stability and assurance. Because that’s what I thought love was. It’s this mindset which influenced my first marriage: I desperately wanted someone to provide and care for me.
In time, I realized that all my marriage gave me was a false sense of security. So I got a divorce, and moved myself and my daughter across the country to San Diego – to make it on my own.
My second marriage was to a man from my past who I thought I wanted to be in love with. It lasted about two weeks. I realized I was attracted to him for all the wrong reasons: outward appearance and social status. The thing is, we just really didn’t get along. When he asked me to marry him, I remember thinking that I’d give things a year to change.
Then I said to myself, “If he was not my man… would I like him as a friend?” The answer to that was a big, fat NO.
“You can change it”
I realized I was harboring a lot of anger, and feeling very sorry for myself. After each divorce, I’d moved states, thinking a change of geography could help me start over. Boy, how wrong I was! At one point, after my second divorce, I was steps away from giving up. I recall crying on the floor, when I heard a voice inside of me. It said this:
“If you don't like your life, you have no-one to blame but yourself.”
Now of course, that made me feel even worse. As if we’re not already our own worst critics! What I heard next though, kind of blew my mind.
“The good news is, you can change it.”
Creating a romantic life as successful as my career
From that very moment, I knew I needed to start creating what I wanted. I needed to choose love, instead of settling. To provide love and security for myself, and not wait for anyone else to do it for me. To build my self image to a greater awareness – one of love, not neediness. To develop a greater spiritual connection to my true self.
So I shifted my focus inward to really start manifesting my best self-image, as well as my awareness and connection to my spiritual path. I went back to school and my career took off.
By this time I had two college degrees, I was the co-founder of one charter school and Director of Outreach for a number of others, I was on several leadership teams. I was also doing a lot of public speaking, facilitating stress management workshops and spiritual connection in the community.
So in my career, I was totally fulfilled – and making more money than I thought I ever would. But after about five years of focusing on that, I started to get a longing for a deeper connection. For someone to share my life with.
I was ready to reignite my passion – and become the best baggage-free version of myself.
Manifesting that man!
I made the decision that this time I would do it the right way. I would manifest the person that is going to love and respect me as much as I love and respect myself. Since I was a Holistic Health Practitioner and Mindset Expert, I turned my search inward, and used the manifesting techniques I already knew.
I was confident that I’d worked on myself enough that I was no longer coming from a place of neediness or being my own worst-enemy. I had already changed my mindset, and was able to manage my emotions. At the same time, I started to align myself to what I really wanted in a life partner.
I set a goal to find someone who I loved, who could love me back. I used all the techniques I’d learned throughout my journey to visualize and make it happen – working on my inner self, and changing my vibration to attract what I truly wanted.
Then, one day I felt the strangest pull to join a dating site. Within a couple of days, I received a message from a man who wasn’t really “my type”.
But there was something in the vibration that told me to give it a try. I’ll never forget the words he said to me after our fabulous first date.
“Seriously, where have you been hiding?”
And I really had been, in effect hiding. Hiding away from what I could really achieve in love. Well, here we are 15 years later, and I couldn’t be happier. I’m living my dream of having a great career working with women to align and attract their amazing relationship AND having my best friend and lover with me every step of the way.
I have the money and my honey – and so can you!
Book a conscious conversation with me, and I’ll show you how…